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Celebrating Easter in Jamaica

It is well known that Easter is very important in many Countries around the world. But in Jamaica? Easter is celebrated with a four-day weekend, where most businesses and all schools are closed. Everyone looks forward to this weekend if only to rest. But there are those who have traditions, that are still carried out today. There are staple foods that are ‘mandatory’ at certain holidays or times of the year. Easter is a big one.

Hey, my Sno Flakes! Welcome back! Come sit down and get this tea. Allow me to refill your glass. Hopefully, you have been following along with the latest posts. So recently, I updated you on my move to Jamaica. That was challenging, but I did it successfully.

Little Dunns River, is now closed to the public.

Now back to Easter. Easter is a very important holiday. After all, it is the rising of our Lord Jesus Christ. But here, the entire weekend is important, not only for Christians but for everyone. From Friday to Monday is a National Holiday, and is celebrated among the entire Island with activities and traditions.

We start with Holy Thursday with the start of Lent, which is well known and celebrated as representing the withdrawal and sacrifice of Christ. Traditionally, they will abstain from meat on Friday and fish is eaten instead. Thursday evening, the cooking of fish and Bun is done. No cooking is allowed on Good Friday, so it is all done the night before.

The term “Good” in response to Good Friday is an Old English expression meaning holy. On Friday, the fish n bun is wrapped in foil, and carried with them on the road, everywhere to eat all weekend. Believers go as far as to bring a snack of fish n bun wrapped in foil to Church with cheese. The church is attended on Good Friday, as well as Sunday.

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Bun is referred to as ‘spiced bun’. It is eaten with a slice of cheese all weekend. ‘Easter bun’ is the main tradition in Jamaica at this time of year. Jamaican bun is made of spices such as nutmeg, cinnamon, Guinness, (yes beer), brown sugar, honey, molasses, and egg. It has a deep, rich flavor and it is normally made in a loaf pan and served as slices and with cheese. You may see home baked in aluminum foil, or it can be purchased at the local markets. You might see ‘Easter bun’ or at other times of the year, ‘Spice bun’. Although I prefer it without cheese, it is really good!

Among many other, older traditions in the Carribean is ‘egg in wata’. I am actually not sure if this is still practiced here in Jamaica. However, I am told at midday, around noon, an egg white (only) is placed into a bowl and set in the sun to ‘dry’. Depending on what shape it takes, it can predict your future. For example, a cross or a church means you will soon find marriage. The shape of a fetus, you will have children, and so on.

It is said in Jamaica, that the crucifying of Jesus was done on a cross made from the Physic nut tree. On Good Friday alone, (as told by an elder Rasta), the nut tree bleeds at exactly twelve o’clock. The sap oozes a red liquid known to represent the blood of Jesus Christ. He says any other time of year, the tree looks ‘nawmal.’ I would have loved to see this for myself.

We all know that everyone, believers or not attends Church on Easter. It is believed that Easter is the best time of year for anyone in the clothing retail industry. The same goes here in Jamaica. People who never attend church all year, show up in the best outfits, in all white on Easter.

The most fun of activities, for many, is the Celebration of Carnival. Carnival is celebrated in honor of freedom from slavery. There are parades, exquisite costumes, food, dancing, and parties around the Island. The costumes in itself are something to see. They can range from simple to exotic. Some with masks, dressed as ancient spirits. Depending on your budget, regular attendees have special custom-made outfits for Carnival. Although it is a local celebration, people from all over the world attend Carnival, not just in Jamaica, but Canada, Africa, the UK and so many more places.

The last day of this four-day weekend, the day after Easter, Monday. Most families pack coolers and picnic baskets and go to the beach. Here in Montego Bay, it will be Harmony Park, which is free, or Dr. Cave Beach. Dr. Cave is $1100 jmd for entrance and the same for a chair. So if you are planning a beach day, Monday may be busy so go early.

This picture is older but represents local Jamaicans in dance, celebrating the Yam festival. Credit to: https://jamaicans.com/trelawnyyam2005/

Pre-pandemic, there was also the annual Yam Festival in Trelawney. 60% of the island’s yams are grown here. They are a huge part of the economy of rural Trelawny. The festival began in 1997 to raise money for local farmers. You will see yam wine, punch, pudding, and anything you may think of yam. There is also a parade, various entertainment, contests among the locals, and so much more. One thing is for sure, expect good food, music, dancing, and making new friends!

Being that I am foreign, I am excited to see what Easter brings this year. I love to learn about culture and education of how people around the world are different. Hopefully, being the pandemic is over, everyone can go back to celebrating their long-awaited weekend, and National holiday.

Thank you for following me on this adventurous holiday weekend. I send love to you and your family. No matter how you choose to celebrate, (or not), make sure to choose to celebrate in the way best for you and your family. Until next time, I will have the tea ready. Keep your glass half full, sweet and southern.

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I can’t sit still!

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Hey! How’s it going? Me? It’s been a great day! A longer week. Come on in, let me get you a glass of Tea.

So, at my Church, I am a doorkeeper, a Deaconess, a videographer, I sing in the Choir, once a month we drive the Church van, and it all fell on the same week, this week. I am exhausted! That is not to mention the other million things I have going on in my life! Today was our Community Day on the grass at my church, Now Faith Church International, located in Pleasant Grove Alabama. We had an awesome time!

At the picnic today we had the music blasting, dancing on the lawn, children laughing and playing in the moonwalk, a Sno Cone machine, food smelling good. The grill was going with hot dogs and hamburgers for everyone in the community at no charge. The elders were in the shade under the tree, eating bee bops. Takes me back to my childhood. What is a bee-bop? It is a frozen kool-aid in a small Styrofoam cup. We freeze them, then, once frozen, you eat them on a hot day under a shade tree. Oh! but you have to pull the frozen delish out of the cup, n turn it upside down! They are so sweet and delicious. A southern favorite on a hot summer day! It is well-known among the neighborhood “candy lady”.

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Oh yea, we dance, to gospel music. Some Christians know how to have fun and be saved. I also love to sing. Our choir is amazing. Believe it or not, we started out fourteen years ago with three members in the choir. Now we call it the “Now Faith Mass” choir because we have almost 25 people singing with us. I am not the best singer, but our Minister of Praise, he
can teach a duck to sing hunny!
So, as I stated above, I am also a doorkeeper. Yep, when anyone walks through that door, you will see my face to greet you with a great big “Hey, how are you?” and a hug. I love people, so I asked specifically to be on the door. I want everyone to feel welcome when they come. I mean, who wants to see a sour puss when they visit a new church? Not me! I wouldn’t be back. I hate to see ugly faces. When I say ugly, I mean frowns and complaining. Turn that frown upside down. Tomorrow I have to also ride with hubby, to pick up members on the church van. It’s our week to drive. I will be so glad when this week is over! I can finally get some rest, maybe.

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Oh, wait, I have to visit my cousin in the hospital, she had a stroke. I have to finish the videos I recorded of the Revival for the church tape ministry, grocery shopping, laundry, type the minutes from our Motorcycle Ministry monthly meeting. Jeesh, I may get some rest next month. Yea, the end of May sounds good. But then again, that is Memorial weekend. As you can see, as I have mentioned before, in previous posts, I have a lot on my plate, as we say in the south. I can never sit still. I would probably be bored if I sat too long anyways.

I am not sure when I will get some good, all-night rest. Am I the only one who moves like this? Do you have a tendency to always be moving?

Comment below, let me know your thoughts on the subject. I will pause for now. But please stay tuned to see where this busy Southern life takes me! Come along for the ride, and keep your glass full. Until the next time we chat, stay blessed, stay southern sweet! I’ve got the tea waiting.

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Life can be so unexpected!

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Hey ya’ll! Come on in, take a seat. I have somne tea to share. You ready? Let’s go!

Let’s chat about life! Life in itself, can be so many things to us on a daily basis. It can be amazing, nerve wracking, exciting, and very unexpected. There are some who say, “I have my whole life planned out on a schedule for the next ten years”. And then there is me. I often drive my husband crazy with it, because even though I plan things, they never seem to go my way. If they do, I have changed my mind 30 times before the end result. Hey, what can I say,, I am a sagitarious. I’m a jump off the cliff, and think about it later kind of person. I might wake up tomorrow and feel like driving 6 hours on a whim, to see Mom. Then, only to stay one night, wake up ready to hit the road again. I am getting better at planning, but there are times when it just doesn’t matter. There are times, that no matter how long and detailed our plans may be, some things can not be avoided. Like death. It happens to everyone, no avoiding that one.

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Death can be so unexpected. Like a sudden turn in the road. If you are not careful, you’ll end up in a ditch! Slow down! Death can be like a robber coming in your home while your asleep in the middle of the night. I mean hey, if a robber were to tell you he was coming at three A.M. through the back bedroom window, you would be there waiting with a shotgun to let him have it, right? Of course you would! Who wouldn’t? But what happens when it is unexpected? Are you prepared to deal with it? I am not just speaking financially. Although, that is something that can be planned. The cost of a funeral is so expensive now. No, I am speaking emotionally. Am I, if need be, prepared for that day when I must bury Mother? Or my husband? Even one of my children? Again, I think not. Death is something that no matter how much you prepare emotionally, even if it is inevitable that it is on it’s way to claim the life of this person you are so going to miss. No one will ever be ready to lose a life. No one. Unless your just the type who has no sense of connect to others, no respect or remorse for life. But even then, there will be that one person, to bring even the hardest of hearts to tears.

In the past year, I have seen death fall all around me. A young man at my church, “Bill” I’ll call him, is a young impressionable teenage boy. He has a mother, a father, and 3 younger siblings, significantly younger than he. Earlier in the year, his father all of a sudden, became ill, and passed away. No planning could be made to prepare for this. It just happened. Now I get word yesterday, that his mother passed. Her lung cancer came back. So now, I look at this young man, and I feel for him. I was in tears, not because of my friend’s passing, but for these children. Now what? Fortunately, there grandparents are still around to take them in. But is this going to effect these young lives? All the softball games, the prom, the wedding, the babies. Their parents will not be around for any of it. It saddens me.

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It saddens me to think that as much as I love my family, I would have to leave, and miss all of these life events! I look at my children, and sometimes I just shake my head. Other times I am full of joy to see just how far and wonderfully made adults they have become. Even though I never had any children of my own, due to health reasons, I happen to have been blessed with a huge family. I mentioned them in my post yesterday. I have 2 girls, 2 boys, a slew of grandsons and one granddaughter, Kennedi Nariah. Isn’t she just a doll?

12747354_10153228591956086_3570425061739090607_oHolidays are huge at our home, just like when I was a child. Family is everything to me! I often wonder though, are they really prepared for this rugged world? Are they prepared for that day when Dad and Snow will not be here for them? If not, I feel like Freddie and I have done all we can to prepare them. We have taught them values, respect, a sense of adventure, and planning. But Death? That my friends, can not be prepared for. Or can it?

My husband and I are avid motorcycle riders. A Harley to be exact. We used to be involved with a prominent outlaw Motorcycle club, or “gang” as society labels them. However, we have now been saved by grace, and turned our life to Jesus Christ, changing our lives for the better. Our lives have never been the same! There were times, as I look back now, that we should have both been sent home in a casket. There is no other way, except to imagine our parents and grandparents prayers from long ago protecting us from harm. Someone was on their knees for us, and I thank you.

One day I came to my daughter and told her, “I need to prepare you for our death, God forbid”. She did’t want to discuss it. I had to make her see, that even though she’s not the oldest, she is the only one, responsible enough to make it through, and help her siblings. To step up to the plate, and be strong for the others, if ever something happened while we are out on that road. I thank God, nothing ever happened. We are still here, now being an example to our children of living a Kingdom lifestyle. (That is a whole other subject). It saddens me, as I look back, that we took the chances we did, not thinking of our family, to just go on the road, with no sense of consequence, that we may not come home to our children. It saddens me the thought of possibly having to go through life with out any guidance, a parents love, a hug, their support in everything they do.

As I sit here writing this, with tears streaming down my face, I even feel saddened for what might have been, even though we were graced with life. So now what can I do with this? I can pick up my smile, throw that away in the past, and keep moving. That’s right, let the past remain there, in the past. But how about the future? I ask again, am I prepared for that day when someone closest to me leaves me behind? I do have faith in Jesus Christ, and the comfort he promises me that, yes it will be difficult, but I am built for this test. I can make it. And I will.

You will often here me speak of Jesus, and how much he means to me. If it were not for the Lord on my side, I would not be the strong independent person I am today. Jesus reminds us in his word, that even though that person is gone from this realm, if they are a child of God, we will one day see them again. Now if they are not saved by grace, of course then depending on your beliefs, you should be saddened. Some feel like we are just here, and after death, it is just over. That’s it? I am just gonna die, and that is it? I am so glad I know the truth. It comforts me to know Mother will be waiting on me, that Dad is waiting on me. We will all be together again, IF we prepare.

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“But Snow, I thought you said Death can not be prepared for?”.  Yes, we may not be able to plan for Death. But we can prepare for it. (Ecclesiastes 12:7, NIV) says, “The dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it”.  At the resurrection, God reunites the body and His life-giving spirit, and the person lives again. So what does that mean to us? That means Granny is up there, with God, until that day upon His return. Now that is something to shout about, even in a time of grief! We are only temporarily separated. Isn’t that a little bit comforting?

So, long story short, if you are all of a sudden facing grief right in the face, reflect on this for a moment. Think about your own life. Have we truly “Prepared” ourselves for death? Or are we just living day to day? Death is never a subject we run to for discussion. But it is unavoidable. Every man, woman, race, creed, culture, and breathing thing in this universe, will ultimately one day face death. So let us prepare for it while we have the chance. Let us allow God to send a word of encouragement, a hug of sorts. A comfort in knowing that we will meet again one day. That is, of course, if the right choices have been made, to prepare that same path to a be with God. After all, the choice is ours to make.

I often refer to Deuteronomy 30:19 which states, “This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live and that you may love the Lord your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him”.  I love this! You mean, even though Death can not be planned upon, I still have a choice after death?! Yes, that is what I am saying. For me, I choose life. I choose to prepare for death, even if I can not plan for it. I choose to go on living, knowing that, yes, I am very saddened, even in a sense of grief, over a possible loss. But at the same time, I am overjoyed knowing, I have prepared my path, and we will meet again. So, choose life! After all, we still have others here that need us more.

Until we meet again, pick up that smile, dry them tears, give me a big ole hug. Let’s keep moving. One day at a time is all you need. It will get easier with time, like a small whisper, a vapor of smoke, that grief will leave, and a small reminder will come to you of this person you have missed so. Then you will smile, and keep moving. Just do not give up! Keep going. If you can not keep moving for yourself, at least do it for those counting on us. I love you. God loves you. Be comforted, be blessed, be prepared. Stay southern sweet!

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